Ceremonies In and Around Columbus, Ohio by Rebecca J. Williams
You may say your vows a number of different ways. Here are some of them: 1. The offciant asks questions and you respond "I do." (Answer) 2. The officiant asks questions and you respond and then repeat words or phases after the offciant. (Answer and Repeat) 3. You repeat everything after the officiant (Repeat) 4. You read your vows to each other. 5. Any combination of the above.
Follow these links for many choices and ideas: Secular vows